A great way to show women that you’re different than other guys is by asking her for her opinion in regards to several different things. This works for anything from dating advice to what color you should paint your living room. Women love to give their opinion, but they love it even more when you come to them for it. The best part about getting a woman’s opinion is that doing so also benefits you because it makes her feel like you’re the type of guy who will listen to her, even if you really aren’t. The next time you want to make a woman think you would be a good catch, start by asking her for her advice.
Getting Dating Advice from Her for Your Friend
One great way to gain a woman’s attention is by asking her for dating advice for your friend. This friend can be real or made up, but we would suggest having a real friend that you can actually point out to her. Some women tend to think that when you mention your friend who needs help with dating that you’re really talking about yourself and it can come off as pretty cheesy. After you’ve begun talking to her, explain to her that you’re at the club, bar, or wherever you are because your friend has hit a rough patch in his relationship. Make sure you point out your friend so she doesn’t think you’re talking about yourself. You should then use this time to tell her the story about your friend’s rocky relationship. It helps if you’ve made this story up in advance.
After you’ve explained the story to her, ask her what she thinks your friend should do. You need to really get her talking because this will also help you see what type of person she is and how she handles dating. Make sure you repeat some of the things she’s telling you back to her to show her that you are really paying attention and that you want to help your friend. This will not only show her that you’re a caring person, it will also show her that you respect her enough to listen to her and that you’re not just playing games.
Agree with Her
After she’s told you what she think is the best plan of action, agree with her. However, don’t just say something like, “You’re right,” or “I agree.” Tell her that you never thought about it that way and that her plan makes perfect sense. Pretend like you’re really amazed that she thought of something that never crossed your mind. This will be extremely flattering to her.
Once you feel like you’ve made her comfortable enough where she’s happy to give you her advice, you should ask her if you can contact her when you have your own problems that you need to work out. Tell her that you’re not in a relationship, so she won’t think you’re trying to get her to help you out with another women unless it deals with mending relationships between female relatives.
When you do these things, you will flatter her so much that she will always be willing to talk to you and the more you come to her for advice for fake problems, the more comfortable she’ll be with you. Hooking up with her will happen in no time at all.