One of the best ways to attract women is by making them think you’re in tune with your sensitive side, even if you’re not. One of the easiest ways to do this is by writing letters to women. The best thing about this method is that you can do it almost anywhere and that you don’t even have to know the woman to write to her. The next time you really want to impress a woman by showing her how sensitive you are, make sure you have a pen and something to write on and learn to charm her with your words.
Taking the Restaurant Approach
This method is for men who really want to impress a woman and all of her friends. You want to reserve it for a restaurant and not a bar or nightclub because those usually have dimly lit lighting and in most cases, women may be too busy getting drunk to read anything. You can also use this method at a coffee shop or some other area where it isn’t too loud and chaotic. If you’re in a restaurant, take a napkin and start writing down different things. You can describe how beautiful she is or how the smell of certain foods remind you of stories about when you were younger. If you don’t have any personal stories, you can make them up. If you make up your stories, you want them to seem as they are genuine and really happened unless you are purposefully telling a fictional story by going for the cute and funny approach. Buy her a drink and have your waiter or waitress deliver your napkin letter to her, and keep sending her letters throughout the night. Make sure to tip your waiter or waitress since he or she will be helping you out by delivering your literature.
Take the Nightclub or Bar Approach
You can still use the napkin letter approach at a nightclub or bar. You’re just going to have to shorten your messages enough so that potentially drunk women can read them. You will still need the aid of a waiter or waitress, and you will still need to tip them. When you’re writing down stuff on napkins or random bits of paper, your messages should be short and simple. For example, you can simply write, “You’re beautiful,” or “I’m too shy to speak to you.” While these are things she’s probably heard in person, it’ll be different to receive them as written messages, and she will more than likely enjoy them. If she ends up not being interested in you, chances are, any friends that she’s with are already trying to figure out how to make their move on you. It’s really a win-win situation.
No matter what you write on or what you write about, make sure it is always tasteful and classy. Don’t write about sex or anything perverted because messages like that have a high chance of backfiring on you. Stick with flattering and save the kinky messages for when you’ve gotten her into your bedroom, and with this approach, she’ll end up there sooner than you think.