You are not alone. Every guy hates the idea of buying some kind of sexual aide. It is an affront to our manhood to think we need to have anything other than what we are born with to please women. Like it or not, women appreciate a guy who is secure enough in his manhood to have a few essential sex supplies in the night stand. Of course, you do not want to appear you have a sexual addiction, so don’t overdo it. Among the things you should have in your nightstand include some lube, ribbed condoms and a small vibrator. These essential sex products will help you to not only pleasure your woman better, but can mean a better sexual experience for you as well.

Why You Need Lube

Guys have this image in their mind they can get any girl wet just by taking off their clothes. Even if this is normally true, not every girl is going to have the ability to produce enough lubrication all the time. She may be under the weather, taking a medication which prevents her from getting wet, or is just tired. No matter what the reason is, she may need a little lube to get things going. You will be the hero of the day if you can bring some right out of the nightstand. You may even want to have a regular one for normal use and a warming one to bring a new sensation to the bedroom. Take some time to learn how much to use. It is possible to use too much and you do not want to clean that mess up!

Using Ribbed Condoms Helps

Even if you are an extremely talented lover, it is always nice to bring a little something extra to the party. Ribbed condoms add a new sensation for her she will love. It is not so much of a sensation it will cause her to go numb from it, but it is enough she will notice the difference. Wearing condoms is always a good idea no matter what, but if you are hesitant to wear them for pleasure purposes, keep in mind her pleasure for a change. She will show you her appreciation in return.

Having a Vibrator Is Not Weird

There are small vibrators on the market you should purchase. These are no bigger than your pinky finger, but they make all the difference in the world when she is right on the edge of an orgasm, but cannot seem to get there. Just turn on the vibrator and put it against her clit. Some guys will just give it to her and let her work it however she wants to. As a side note, even though the vibrator is there to provide her the pleasure she needs to go over the edge, you will notice how good it feels as well. You may find you do not want to have a sexual experience unless she is using the vibrator and you will be happy you have the essential sex products ready.