Regardless of what women will tell you, most of them want a man to protect them. When deciding to visit nightclubs and bars, women are already on the alert for potential men that can be dangerous and cause them harm. It is something that has been taught to them for years and we doubt it is ever going to change. While this type of mind frame sometimes makes it difficult for us to pick up women, we can also use it to work to our advantage. All it really takes is a bit of acting and relying on a woman’s natural instinct to be weary of strangers and to migrate to men who they believe will protect them.
Get Your Story Straight
Before you convince women that you are there to protect them, you have to make sure that you have fully figured out your story. Take some time create a good dialogue for yourself. Think of it as a script, but keep in mind that you won’t know her responses, so you will have to rely on improve at times. This method usually works best at clubs or events where there are lots of people standing around in close proximity. When you see a woman that you’re interested in, walk up to her and start chatting. You want to appear confident and you want to pretend like you already know her. She will be confused and that is expected. Before she can ask what you’re doing, lower your voice and tell her that you’ve noticed a guy eyeing her and that he looks dangerous. Tell her you didn’t want him to come over and start harassing her, so you’re pretending you know her until he leaves.
It is important that you appear to completely sincere with this story. If for a moment you seem like you are up to something, she will call you out on it. Make her believe that you only have her best interest in mind. Eventually, she will want to keep chatting with you because she will be thankful that you wanted to protect her. This would be where you charm her, but do it naturally. Don’t pretend to be James Bond or it will backfire on you.
Get Your Friends Involve
This trope has been done in cartoons and movies all over the word. You and your buddy make a plan where he is disgusting and annoying to the woman that you’re interested in and you swoop in and save the day. When executed properly, this plan can go off without a hitch. However, most of the time the plan ends up failing because the guys involved aren’t serious enough to make everything seem genuine. If you want to get your friends to carry out this plan, you have to make sure whoever you choose is fully onboard. You’re also going to have to practice. We can’t tell you how many times one of these plans have failed because the person who was supposed to be a nuisance ending up charming the women or laughing and messing everything up. If you’re going to do it, do it right and find someone who will take their role seriously.
No matter which method you choose, they both require research and bit of practice before you’ll be ready to start acting it all out. Don’t rush into it and embarrass yourself. Take some time to plan things out and get it right the first time.