One of the best ways to attract women is by pretending that you need help with shopping. Women like to think that they know everything when it comes to shopping. They want to know that their opinion is valued and that you trust them to help you make the best purchase. This is one of the reasons why meeting women at department stores works so well for some men. However, it takes more than simply going up to a woman and asking her what she thinks about a certain item. You have to show that you have to make her believe that you really care about what she thinks. Doing this is a lot easier than you may think. All it takes is a little bit of acting and improve.
Let Her Overhear Your Conversation
One great way to go about convincing a woman to believe that you need her help with shopping is by having a fake conversation in which she will overhear. This conversation should involve you speaking on your cell phone to a male friend or family member. While you are speaking aloud your made up replies, make sure you are saying things like, “I don’t know what your wife likes,” or “I don’t know if I feel comfortable buying that for your girlfriend for you.” You want to really make it seem like you are talking to someone on the other end. Another thing you want to say is, “I’ll see if I can find someone who knows more about this than I do.” You definitely want to make sure when you say this, she hears you. If she hears you say this and then you approach her for help, you have already indirectly complimented her.
Once you start asking her for help, make sure you ask her questions to figure out if she is single or not. If you don’t want to be too obvious, you can always discreetly check for a ring on her finger. Even if she is married that doesn’t automatically rule out the chance for you to hook up with her.
Listen to Her Every Word
When she is explaining to you why something is good a good or bad choice, ask her questions to keep her talking. You also need to pay attention. Let her see that you respect and value what she’s saying. After she has given you her opinion on what the best item will be, purchase it, but not before asking her if you can buy her dinner or a drink as gratitude. Use this time to really pour on the charm so she doesn’t turn you down.
If you have no use for the item, bring it back to the store another day and get your money back. She doesn’t have to know about it. If you do end up hooking up with her and she asks about the item, tell her your friend’s wife loved it. Continue to get her help with shopping even if you don’t need it. It will make her feel good and it will also make her grow more comfortable with you quicker than you think.